New Year New Resolutions & Happiness

Every Year I make resoulutions so do all of u :) i know .... & 99 % of us fail miserably to maintain them. Why so ? are we lazy? do we allow our mind to take control of our actions? or do we simply don't wan't to come out of our individual comfort levels. I guess that the last reason is more appropriate. I mean I would like to get up early morning go for a brisk walk... do some excercise be in shape etc etc.. but every day I sucssessfully manage to do only one thing.. Procrastinate it... simply tell my mind.....tmmrw I will do it. No wonder my tmmrw never comes.
Start of new decade I thought of doing some serious makeover, and one of the thing that came in my mind was do some serious blogging....now ofocurse why becasue I am reading one book which says that whatever we want to achieve in life we should start declaring it ....declaration is step ahead of affirmation, it creates impact and universe starts acting like that, you yourself start acting like that. I liked that thought, but how do I do this declaration ? The book says I do it by saying it daily in front of mirror, so here I am writing my declaration on mirror where the entire world see's itself "The WEB". Perhaps the peer pressure will make me come out of my individual comfort zone and I will actually start doing things rather than thinking them... check with me when I start my excercise regime.
Let me ask one question to all of you, how many of us are happy with what we have? If you ask me according to me I am 50 % happy with what I got...and if I ask how many you were thinking that I must be nearly 90 % or 100 % happy with what I got? My hunch is it must be aleast 70 - 80 % of you who were thinking that I am perfectly happy. Well sadly no.. there are many things in my life which I want to change..so how do I define Happiness... sounds similar naa most to this motivitional books try to answer this question haunted to mankind for ages and tell about happiness that how happiness defination changes from time to time as per your age you will look for different kind of happiness....from education to money to spouse to children to health and finally happiness in death. You actually start saying to almighty that you want peaceful death not surrounded by pipes and injections and medicine.
So how do we achieve this? How do we ensure that we get success that we are looking for, we are constantly happy with what we have got! We don't crib ? So lets try to find some answers on this... I will try to put some thing on this next week...till then happy reading and happy finding answer....