Why it happens with me only !!

I am sure you all will agree with this statement. Every one of us in certain situations desperately says it out… Oh God why only with me …..we miss deadlines… boss yells …… family disturbs….some one dumps…..every thing happens in wrong way…

What do we do when we get failures inspite of numerous efforts… do we quit or should we still continue with our efforts. Why with me also brings another question…..why other succeed and I fail. Is it destiny or is it lack of my efforts.

Over years this failure also results in depletion of confidence and patience and then we resign to our fate and stop giving our efforts. This after knowing that human should keep giving best efforts and should not bother @ results. But can we be so selfless, the moment we start any activity don’t we start analyzing the result we will get and try to dream @ it… but then at the end we end up failing…..how you train your mind for this. I know there are ways like mediations, self help books, motivational talk everything but do they really work ??

My friend who is big believer of all this things said the basic parenthesis of manifestation and other self help techniques is that you should have faith in it. Ok so let me say that for a moment I do have belief in these things….still I do get failures. What would be reason behind this ? Perhaps we may have some lack somewhere…need to find answer !!!!!!

There was a story @ Arthur Ash (famous tennis player). When he came to know that during one of blood transfusion he got infected with AIDS, one reporter asked him that doesn’t he want to ask God “why only he” to which Arthur Ash replied following

“World wide 5 million people play tennis, out of which 50000 make it to professional level. Out of that 5000 play some kind of tournament at some stage of life and 500 of them manage to hit international circuit. Out of that 500 some 50 manage to play in Grand Slam and out of that 50 only 1 wins Grand Slam. When I won Grand Slam I didn’t ask God….Why he choose me only?? So when he gave me this problem I cannot ask Why me only??”. Nice story but are we such optimistic all the time.

I pondered over and over realize one thing that one of the main reason of failure is “Fear of Success”. We fear that we may not able to digest this success, we may not able to handle so much fame, so much money and when this thought occurs in our mind we automatically fail… its irritating we want success yet we fear @ it……

If we look on broader scale perhaps there are two issues 1. Lack of Conviction in own actions & 2. Presence of fears which prevents man from getting success… next blog with some more light on these points… Keep commenting guys !!! ending with my current fav song lines…. Give me some sunshine….give some rain….give me one more chance ….. I want to grow up once again