Sunday, June 17, 2012

Happy Father's Day

It is been ages since I had come to write some thing on my blog… long hiatus I guess  & finally on Father’s day I thought of coming out of my hiatus, my hibernation and start writing again.



Now why on father’s day I am doing this… well now I am in elite league of Father’s club.. proud parent of beautiful cute little princess. So I took back to my writing pad & decided to dedicate first blog to all Fathers !



Over the years people in all ages and all era have been writing & speaking about mother, their scarifies, their emotions but what about poor father. Where is he in all this occasion…



True, mothers are one who is giving birth to child, she is the literally the only contact physically child has till birth. The mother goes through all pains of nine months & also the labour pain…. But at the same time it is the dad who tries his level best to cater to various desires of mother.. when the mother is in labour room she is experiencing pain & entire world know about it… they acknowledge & give support.. but what about father ? isn’t he concerned about his life partner, isn’t he eager to see healthy baby & boy he is nervous , but no one goes to father & give him support … they rather expect that Father is strong 



When child is in pain … mother cries … she can let her emotions flow.. father is again showing he is pillar of strength… he can’t show emotions … but his heart also experiences same pain … mom cooks food, takes care of studies, clothes … father provides it ! yes in urban world a mom also contributes equally, perhaps more … but the father is also ensuring he contributes …. He tries to teach sons few tricks & trades & is very protective of his daughter … but do we acknowledge, naa most of us say we are successful cos of our mother don’t we !!



When we experience small pain we remember our mother “aai ga” , “amma”, but when a truck misses us by whisker what comes first “baap re” …. When we encounter with mammoth task what comes first “baap re”… moral of story we remember our dad’s when situations indicates it is huge task ….



So, on this father’s day go and hug your old man… give a pat on his back.. he deserves it and will make his day !



HAPPY FATHER’S DAY……….. 







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